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topicnews · September 10, 2024

40 tips for romance & fun

40 tips for romance & fun

As the days get shorter, the air becomes clearer, and the trees glow in bright reds, oranges, and golds, a very special atmosphere is created. For those just getting to know each other, autumn offers a relaxed and atmospheric setting to create shared experiences that will be remembered for a long time. For couples who have been together for a long time, autumn is also a wonderful opportunity to escape from everyday life and rekindle romance. And even for friends who just want to spend quality time together, there are countless activities that promise both fun and shared adventure.

Whether it’s a cozy evening around the campfire, an exciting trip to a corn maze or exploring an autumn farmer’s market – the following ideas offer inspiration for anyone who wants to fill the golden months with special moments. Autumn is the perfect time to get creative together, experience adventures or simply enjoy the peace and beauty of nature.

Golden autumn moments

1. Pumpkin Farm: A visit to the pumpkin farm invites you to browse through countless pumpkins. Here you can find the perfect pumpkin for Halloween or snack on a seasonal treat.


2. Fall or Farmers Market: A visit to an autumn or farmer’s market offers the chance to discover regional delicacies and enjoy the hustle and bustle. Fresh products invite you to cook together later.



3. Harvesting fruit: Harvesting fruit yourself is fun and connects you with nature. At an apple, pear or plum farm, you can enjoy autumn to the fullest before processing the fresh fruit at home.

4. Flying a kite: Flying a kite is a playful and nostalgic pastime. The wind carries the kite high up while nature shines in autumn colors.

5. Corn Maze: A corn maze provides excitement and fun as you work together to find the right path. The thrill and the autumnal setting make it an adventurous experience.

6. Carving or painting pumpkins: Pumpkin carving is the perfect autumn activity. Creating funny or scary faces together creates creative masterpieces. Alternatively, you can simply paint the pumpkins.

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7. Amusement park with Halloween events: An amusement park with special Halloween events provides thrills and fun. The special decorations and spooky attractions create an exciting atmosphere.

8. Visit Oktoberfests in the region: At an Oktoberfest you can experience Bavarian tradition – with dirndls, lederhosen and atmospheric music. With a liter of beer and traditional delicacies, you’ll quickly get into the festive mood.

9. Campfire: A campfire on a cool autumn evening creates a romantic atmosphere. The crackling of the fire and the smell of wood provide the perfect backdrop for deep conversations.

We have summarized even more autumn activities in our autumn bucket list.

Cozy moments of enjoyment

10. Cooking or baking together: A joint cooking or baking evening is the perfect opportunity to get closer in a cozy atmosphere. Trying out new recipes and enjoying them together makes for relaxed conversations and lots of laughs.

11. Coffee and cake: An afternoon with coffee and cake in a cozy café is always a good choice. Sweet treats and hot drinks – like a pumpkin spice latte – make for a relaxed chat.

12. Movie night at home: A movie night at home offers the perfect opportunity to get comfortable on the sofa. With snacks and a suitable autumn film, you can enjoy the evening in a relaxed manner.

13. Picnic: A picnic in nature offers a peaceful and cozy atmosphere. With a blanket and autumnal delicacies, you can end the day comfortably. If the ground is already too cold, you can also have a picnic in a spacious trunk.

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14. Board game evening: A board game evening in an autumnal atmosphere with a warming pumpkin soup and candlelight ensures coziness and fun. Perfect for a relaxed and humorous time.

15. Crafting with natural materials: Crafting with natural materials such as leaves and chestnuts offers a creative way to celebrate autumn. Working together, you can create individual little works of art.

16. Visit a winery or wine festival: A winery or wine festival offers the opportunity to taste fine wines and learn about wine production. A glass of wine in your hand and the view over the vineyards create a relaxed atmosphere.

17. Brewery visit: A visit to a brewery allows you to experience the beer production process first hand. Tasting freshly brewed beers in a cozy atmosphere rounds off the trip.

18. Cooking class: A cooking course offers the opportunity to learn new skills in the kitchen and conjure up delicious dishes. Cooking together puts you in a good mood and ultimately results in a delicious meal.

Urban flair & cultural discoveries

19. Planetarium: A visit to the planetarium takes you into the fascinating world of stars and planets. Under the sparkling starry sky, you can experience the infinity of the universe.

20. Bookstore or record store: There is a lot to discover and discuss when browsing through books or records. Between the shelves you can find common interests and new sources of inspiration.

21. Antique shop or flea market: A stroll through an antique shop or a flea market offers the chance to discover hidden treasures. Old objects evoke stories and imagination.

22. Museum or exhibition: A joint visit to a museum or exhibition offers the opportunity to discover and discuss art or history. A cultural experience that inspires.

23. Attend concert: A live concert provides goosebumps and shared musical experiences. The energy of the music and the atmosphere create an unforgettable experience.

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24. Cinema or theater: Visiting a cinema or theater provides a shared cultural experience. Whether it’s a drama, comedy or blockbuster, the subsequent discussion about the film rounds off the date.

25. Castle tour: A tour of the castle invites you to take a journey into the past. Between magnificent halls and historic gardens, you can feel the magic of times gone by.

Indoor fun for rainy days

26. Indoor climbing: Indoor climbing offers a sporting challenge and gets your adrenaline pumping. Overcoming obstacles together builds confidence and is fun.

27. Karting: A fast ride on the go-kart track awakens the inner racing driver. Here the adrenaline rush is combined with a prize competitive spirit.

28. Pottery course: A pottery course not only promotes creativity, but also patience and skill. At the end, you will hold a self-made souvenir in your hands.

29. Billiards or darts duel in the pub: A friendly competition in billiards or darts in the pub will liven up the evening. You can chat in a relaxed manner over a drink while your sporting ambitions are challenged.

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30. Crime Dinner: A crime dinner combines exciting puzzle solving with a delicious meal. In this interactive experience, you immerse yourself in the role of detectives and solve tricky cases.

31. Roller skating rink: A roller skating rink offers nostalgic fun and exercise. Gliding across the floor together creates a mixture of laughter and romance.

32. Bowling: Bowling combines exercise and fun. Whether it’s strikes or poodles, there’s no room for boredom when you’re throwing the ball together.

33. Thermal baths or wellness: A day at the thermal baths or at a wellness centre relaxes the body and mind. In warm water and with soothing treatments, you can forget the stress of everyday life.

34. Escape room: An escape room puts your puzzle-solving and logical thinking skills to the test. Overcoming tricky challenges together promotes teamwork and creates excitement.

35. Visit the Chamber of Horrors: Visiting a horror show gives you goosebumps and thrills. Walking through the dark corridors together inspires courage and brings people together.

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In nature

36. Autumn walk or hike: An autumn walk through the colorful nature invites you to have relaxed conversations. The scent of leaves and fresh air creates a calming and romantic atmosphere.

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37. Zoo or animal park: A walk through the zoo or animal park brings back childhood memories and offers the opportunity to discover exotic animals. An experience that provides entertainment and interesting conversations.

38. Canoe tour: A canoe trip on a calm river offers relaxation and adventure at the same time. Surrounded by autumn nature, paddling together creates unforgettable moments.

39. Archery: Archery is an exciting mix of concentration and skill. In a course you can learn the technique and discover your inner Robin Hood.

40. Autumn bike tour: A bike ride through colorful forests and along rural paths is ideal for enjoying the autumn landscape. The fresh air and rustling leaves make every ride an experience.


The special atmosphere of autumn invites you to consciously enjoy nature and its many facets. Whether creative, adventurous or cozy – autumn offers numerous opportunities to enjoy time with your loved ones to the fullest. Now is the perfect time to use the golden autumn moments and create new memories.

The wording of the text was revised using artificial intelligence (AI) and then checked by an editor.